Quote Originally Posted by Estellios View Post
Now melding VIT materia on your gear, IMO, is a much better idea because usually you will not be able to add more/much MND to it.
Most main slot gear has VIT on it too, so you're only really able to meld more onto accessories.

The choice between wand+shield and cane is pretty meaningless. Slightly different secondary stats, that's it. As a healer you shouldn't NEED to put points into VIT. Just upgrading gear should be sufficient. Bad tanks will be bad tanks; you have tools to help buy you a few precious seconds for most cases (Fluid Aura, Repose, Stone I for Heavy if it's that bad, Sprint).