Mainly because even tho it took 6 hours to get a tank, someone didnt rage quit out over one mistake 2 hours into a grinding party.
Needless to say this community is horrible when it comes to manners and gaming Etiquet,
they feel that even tho thts a person your dealing with, it doesnt pretain to real life.
you sure as heck wouldnt treat your co-workers the same way you treat your fellow FFXIV players.