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    Player Sinth's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aleksandr View Post
    Sinith this is the part where you say: I called out someone's gear being subpar for their motivation for disagreeing with something and I was wrong. I claimed they did not make parties and I was wrong there too! It is okay to be wrong, but when you are wrong don't cling to it. You made a personal attack on me citing my armor and gear was my motivations for enjoying normal WP runs suggesting I make my own parties when I have as many as I want.
    I never assumed your gear was sub-par. I never assumed your gear was below the requirements you were complaining about. I only stated that it is selfish and over-entitled to ask people to reduce their personal standards to be more in line with your own. If you think it is ridiculous to ask for relic +1 for runs which do not require high-end gear, you are entitled to that opinion. However, you step over the line when you ask others to conform to your own personal standard. People can do as they wish, asking for more than what is required is their perogative, and has nothing to do with you.

    I have no problem with admitting when I make mistakes, and I will when I do.

    Your accusation that I called your gear into question is absolutely false and I challenge you to provide an example of it. If anything, I deserve the apology for your false accusations.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sinth View Post
    I never assumed your gear was sub-par. I never assumed your gear was below the requirements you were complaining about. I only stated that it is selfish and over-entitled to ask people to reduce their personal standards to be more in line with your own. If you think it is ridiculous to ask for relic +1 for runs which do not require high-end gear, you are entitled to that opinion. However, you step over the line when you ask others to conform to your own personal standard. People can do as they wish, asking for more than what is required is their perogative, and has nothing to do with you.

    I have no problem with admitting when I make mistakes, and I will when I do.

    Your accusation that I called your gear into question is absolutely false and I challenge you to provide an example of it. If anything, I deserve the apology for your false accusations.
    Are you sure about that?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sinth View Post
    So if someone's standards are higher than your own they must lower their standards just for you? That is even more selfish than setting unrealistic standards. If you don't like their standards, join another group. If you don't meet the criteria to do speed runs, then either don't do them, or level up a class / obtain gear required to do speed runs. Asking them to lower their standards is just more over-entitled socialist dribble.

    Heaven forbid you start your own groups for content you wish to run.
    So you did not say someone standards were higher than mine they have to lower it just for me? That it was selfish and unrealistic, that should join other groups or level up another class and obtain the gear needed for speed runs and me opposing such was over-entitled socialist dribble? You did not suggest I start my own groups either?

    I apologize I was wrong clearly someone logged in and posted as you.
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    Last edited by Aleksandr; 11-01-2013 at 06:07 AM.

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    Player Sinth's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aleksandr View Post
    So you did not say someone standards were higher than mine they have to lower it just for me? That it was selfish and unrealistic, that should join other groups or level up another class and obtain the gear needed for speed runs and me opposing such was over-entitled socialist dribble? You did not suggest I start my own groups either?

    I apologize I was wrong clearly someone logged in and posted as you.
    You are upset about people asking for Relic +1 to run WP. I said that it is their perogative to have any standard they wish. If you don't meet their standards you can start your own group, raise yourself to their standards, or ignore them. But asking that they lower their standards simply because you don't agree with them is wrong, and it is over-entitled socialist dribble.

    Please let me know how my proposed alternatives to asking people to lower their standards made an assertion about your gear level... or are you just assuming?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sinth View Post
    You are upset about people asking for Relic +1 to run WP. I said that it is their perogative to have any standard they wish. Ifyou don't meet their standards you can start your own group, raise yourself to their standards, or ignore them. But asking that they lower their standards simply because you don't agree with them is wrong, and it is over-entitled socialist dribble.

    Please let me know how my proposed alternatives to asking people to lower their standards made an assertion about your gear level... or are you just assuming?
    When you bolded you, it sounded like you were calling him out specifically....

    Quote Originally Posted by Sinth View Post
    So if someone's standards are higher than your own they must lower their standards just for you? That is even more selfish than setting unrealistic standards. If you don't like their standards, join another group. If you don't meet the criteria to do speed runs, then either don't do them, or level up a class / obtain gear required to do speed runs. Asking them to lower their standards is just more over-entitled socialist dribble.

    Heaven forbid you start your own groups for content you wish to run.
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    Quote Originally Posted by C-croft View Post
    When you bolded you, it sounded like you were calling him out specifically....
    Yes, I was calling him out. Because his opinion is that they should change their standards because they are, in his opinion, too high. However, I never said that his gear was sub-par or anything to that effect.

    My point is, it is wrong to ask people to change their standards simply because they don't match up with your own.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sinth View Post
    Yes, I was calling him out. Because his opinion is that they should change their standards because they are, in his opinion, too high. However, I never said that his gear was sub-par or anything to that effect.

    My point is, it is wrong to ask people to change their standards simply because they don't match up with your own.
    I don't see what the problem is with asking. Not demanding. And if said group says no thanks, that should be the end. But there is nothing wrong with asking to tag along with anything. Assuming you are geared enough in the first place. ie no AF in coil plz, etc.
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    Quote Originally Posted by C-croft View Post
    I don't see what the problem is with asking. Not demanding. And if said group says no thanks, that should be the end. But there is nothing wrong with asking to tag along with anything. Assuming you are geared enough in the first place. ie no AF in coil plz, etc.
    Ya, that is totally fine. However, his original statement was that if he sees someone calling for standards above his own, he is going to ask them to lower theirs (to more fit his own). This is selfish and wrong. It is the same mentality of "I don't like this TV program so I'm going to write a letter to the station and ask them to stop playing it" as opposed to changing the channel.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sinth View Post
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    Pee-paw, what are you doing on the internet? I thought I told the home to cut it off from your room...
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    And this is why your personal story should never take you in to forced grouping, Dungeons should be optional only.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Meijer View Post
    And this is why your personal story should never take you in to forced grouping, Dungeons should be optional only.
    Then what is the point of it being a MMO and not a single player game? The whole point of an MMO is to play with strangers and friends alike. I think you're looking for a traditional RPG.
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