LOL I remember that thread. I'd actually be surprised if a lot of folks take the time to read that, even moreso due to the fact it's on the WoW forums.

On-point though, I have a friend that I play this game with that's kind of in the same boat. He's just playing to have fun, but he's not exactly the greatest at what he does. Gets hit by easy to avoid AoE, stands in the fire or in bad positioning (close to tank sometimes), etc. Part of that is likely due to his laptop only being slightly better than minimum reqs. After knowing this guy for years, his not dodging things often is definitely not on purpose... it's just how he is. Some people won't adjust themselves at the drop of a hat. Some people need help from those they're comfortable with. Our group of friends on this game understand that and we really don't see a point to pushing him on getting better (yet).

The beauty of this game is the gradual need to adjust your playstyle if needed, as far as mechanics are concerned. It throws things at you that aren't a "do or die" sort of thing from the beginning. For example, Ifrit storymode fight. It's a GREAT way to help someone practice mechanics without being too punishing for making mistakes and without wasting time on running around or fighting trash. Each primal fight is a great way to practice mechanics, along with the guildhests for more basic training.