People abusing party in progress option

[Sephirah]

Its not abusing it.

So because the game lets you, it's not abuse to say, tank a boss in a specific location that trivializes core mechanics? Because I'm pretty sure SE considers things like that abuse, or "exploits".

Just because the game lets you do something does not mean it's ok or intended. Again, there is nothing wrong with backing out of a group because you have to do something else. But intentionally looking for mostly cleared dungeons and REFUSING to tank a fresh dungeon is not intended.

I laughed so hard this morning when in an AK run, after we killed the first boss, our healer goes "way to make that fight take a millinia" to which I replied "if you know a faster way that isn't an exploit, be my guest". They dropped group immediately.

You're misunderstanding me. You told a tank that hes giving tanks bad names. This implies that when someone sees this tank being a douche, then that person judges and generalizes all tanks based off that one douche. To which I said, you shouldn't really care about the opinions of those who generalize like that.

They should be able to. Its not enough to cause violence to them.

You are really hung up on that comment about not being able to act like that in real life without getting your ass kicked huh? Judging by your "love-elution" signature I think it's safe to assume you are in the "violence doesn't solve anything" boat. And while I agree POINTLESS violence doesn't solve anything, it is an absolute FACT that throughout the entire history of humanity, more conflicts have been RESOLVED through violence than ANY other medium.

Again, I am NOT saying we should all go kick this guys ass or any other tank that does this. I'm just saying if that is how they act in real life, then yea, eventually someone is gonna smack em, lol.