So far I haven't run into any d-bags that cry about my tanking, but on the flip side I have seen the damage FATES have done to this game. I tanked in WoW for 7 years, and let me tell you, some of the DPSers in this game make the average Night Elf Hunter named Legoluzz in WoW look like a tactical genius with lightning reflexes. I've seriously never so consistently grouped with dpsers in an mmo that seemed so ignorant of their role. Stack on top of this the ubiquitous issues with this games wretched netcode causing people to get hit by AoEs even when they're well out of the red, and you have a situation where tanking and healing is stressful as all hell in content that is largely mechanically brain dead simple (everything is absolute snoozefest facereoll till Qarn on up).