50 relic Paladin here, the toxic community and "requests" and "speed runs" and elitists and demanding demands of the demanding community have turned LOTS of people off to tanking. The remaining tanks are bullies, always pissed, take charge of groups and a generally not nice when in a PUG. I for one am guilty of all of this, because of 50 levels of being talked down to and bullied kinda molded me into a jerk tank. Gonna be completely honest with ya OP if you turn into a jerk tank and I run into you on my relic Monk which is the job I main. I wouldn't even be upset with you. Not even a little bit.