Quote Originally Posted by Amyas View Post
All I can say is try to find a healer buddy to roll with, and don't be afraid to (nicely) ask people to attack the marked mob only, and to run towards you if you lose hate. Seems like your only experience tanking is low level stuff? That's the thing, you have quite a few people that are probably playing in a group for the first/second/third time and don't have the hang of party mechanics yet.
My healer "buddies" are all mostly end game and don't care to sit and run the 1st few story dungeons over and over just to help other people through, though heheh I play with all 4 languages selected and autotranslate just doesn't do some of the simple conversations that are needed.