I want to turn off the you've receive a new tell sound

[Kyouko]

I can't stand it, where do I turn it off? it's really annoying with all these gil sellers

[Raldo]

Esc (to open System Menu) -> Character Configuration -> Log Window Settings (on the left) -> "Play sound upon receiving tell" checkbox

Alternative answer: The little gear button down by your log takes you directly to step 3 above.

[Kyouko]

Sweet, thank you

[Legend_]

Not the same thing but a configuration question.

How to turn off, your PSN ID name displaying on your character examination screen? I couldn't find that but I bet its right in my face

[JPPILIP]

Esc (to open System Menu) -> Character Configuration -> Log Window Settings (on the left) -> "Play sound upon receiving tell" checkbox

Alternative answer: The little gear button down by your log takes you directly to step 3 above.

You can do it the same way on ps3 just replace step 1 with pressing START

[Estellios]

Not the same thing but a configuration question.

How to turn off, your PSN ID name displaying on your character examination screen? I couldn't find that but I bet its right in my face

I don't think you can turn it off, actually. It's apparently something required by Sony.

[Kyriea]

Not the same thing but a configuration question.

How to turn off, your PSN ID name displaying on your character examination screen? I couldn't find that but I bet its right in my face

You can't turn that off however it isn't visible to anyone on PC, only to others playing on PS3.