Pay the 10k, restat to 30 DEX.

VIT is only important in one fight pre-CoB - Titan, but by then you SHOULD be close to full Darklight gear, making your HP high enough to survive the stomps and stray moves (you should only be getting hit by stomps and Earthen Fury if you're DPS).

Don't do STR - at all - on bard

Accuracy - unless you're starting CoB, not really important. Once you start CoB, aim for about 470ACC

Crit - better chance to proc Bloodletter = better Deeps