Agree with OP soo much. I was running Steel Vigil last night was my first time in there and first thing the Mrd says is "This Dungeon makes me a bad tank". >.> so we wipe to the first pull 2 mins into dungeon due to Mrd not using Overpower or flash or any other hate skills and him not marking targets.

So then the brd ask him to mark and he says "How do you do that never heard of it" so i explain it to him how to mark and how to spam overpower/flash to build hate cause my mrd only 21 so it the only ones i know about. So we wipe to the same first pull again while he adjust himself to what seems like his first time tanking.

After that we make it past first pull ^^ yay. Only to walk 20 ft from front door and wipe to 2nd pull. Where the Mrd got about 6 mobs and ran at us. Back at front door and we run up and wipe to 2nd pull again. At this time the whm says its not gonna work out and the Mrd blames himself (duh!) and we wait at gate for a few til Mrd volunteers to leave first xD. its painfully obvious this guy had fate burned Mrd to 41 @.@