I have searched far and wide for an answer to this problem, and I have yet to find anything useful.

FFXIV seems to want to keep using the Intel GPU instead of NVIDIA. I have a little icon that shows what is running with the NVIDIA and I was able to get it to work with the benchmark. I got 7144, which is a little bit more than the 2000 I got the first time...
Anyways, XIV does not show up running with NVIDIA and I am only getting 13 FPS.

I've tried re-installing drivers, re-installing the game, messing with settings, and I went into the NVIDIA control panel to make XIV run with it...but it still doesn't. I am at a loss, I no longer know what to do. Help please?

Intel(R) HD Graphics 3000
NVIDIA GeForce GTX 560M