I don't even mind the system as it is (though I do agree that it's a little silly, and yes I do understand .why. it's happening)

what I would like is a way of actually making sure that the 'general player' understands it.

the other day I did a toto rak run on my con and the tank was cursing me out for not using stone skin, ranting how I'm doing a lazy a** job expecting the blm (who was actually a thm but that's beside the point) to cast it. I ignored him, because I figured i'd rather concentrate on cleansing the poison from him (arguing in the middle of a boss fight is kind of silly, usually)

after the fight the thm went all 'noob it's a lvl 34 skill she can't use it yet, it's a cross class skill for me. now quit b*tchn and do your job correctly so you won't need stone skin' (paraphrased I don't remember what he said exactly)

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