I have not had the greatest experience in most of those groups either, some are actually pro.. but then some are like you mentioned, trying to appear pro and make a mess of things and want to over complicate things and then break down into finger pointing. I have lately been finding some awesome groups in DF lately , and think I will stay using that outside of FC parties. For instance, last week I got into an AK solo que and we cleared it in 28 min, not ever saying a word to each other really until the end ( which was a plus and a negative) No complaining, everyone knew thier job and what to do.. we just didn't talk much except the gj thanks for run bit at end, but still..