Why did you need to make a separate post for this when there are already 3 posts on the main page talking about this exact same thing?
Your solution is flawed. If it bothers you that much you can simply leave. After you leave you know exactly what to expect so shout for a group. You had 50 levels to make friends, find an FC or find a linkshell. I certainly hope you didn't rush through them using FATEs. I ran it my first time in a group like that. I was warned and I expected it. I watched the cutscenes anyway. Sure I missed a few boss fights but who cares? I'll fight those bosses 100 times over doing the exact same thing they are doing to me. Nobody forces you to do anything, just don't give in to peer pressure.