I'm not myself either a shiny bucket of good thoughts, honestly even though I took break from tanking roles for over 2 years some mentality of "you are leader, you are one who paces group, you are tallest wall between mobs and party but also one who takes all responsibility" doesn't fade but along whit it comes also easy to spark D-bag mode.

Honestly what can I say... tanks can be nice players but for that group can no be worse than bad (or just plain retarded) or d-bagging, be that and tank sparks D-bag mode too ...I sure do at least