"Jap is an English abbreviation of the word "Japanese." Today it is generally regarded as an ethnic slur among Japanese minority populations in other countries... during and after the events of World War II, the term became derogatory"

The majority of us are bitter because we're sick of the crap we have to deal with from DD and healers. DD engaging before the tank and complaining about losing threat. DD not AoEing on 3+ mob pulls. DD not being able to take criticism without crapping blood. DD not knowing which targets have priority. I will say this though; people also need to remember that FFXIV:ARR carries people to 50 on a silver platter so you will be getting fresh 50s who have absolutely no idea how to do their job because all they had to do was spam AoEs for 50 levels. There is a lot of reason why tanks are jerks but mostly it's because we are sick of everyone else being jerks/ignorant. Atleast I am, however I'm never rude. I normally just say why I'm leaving then leave.