I'm one of those d-bags. Welcome to our ranks, the dark side is better anyway.

You'll turn into a d-bag too, eventually, if you keep tanking for too long. You'll also learn to hate DPS players. Nice tanks are suppressing their inner self and it'll eventually lead to psychological problems.

A while ago I flipped at some black mage who told me to spam more flash when I tank because healer got aggro in the pack before the last boss of Dzemael Darkhold. I caught the aggroed mob before it even got to the healer and nobody took any damage in the pull besides me. It was a smooth run, around 30mins with no cc. Then this smartass starts to teach me how to do my job. I wonder what he thought would happen? Did he think I would be all smiles and happy thoughts?

DPS players have the ultimate slacker mentality and more often than not, they are the weakest link in any DF group (from tank perspective).