It would appear the op's qualms revolve around his inability to find uber people to basically carry him thru raids.

Tough. Good players don't magically appear out of thin air.

You must find those willing to dedicate themselves and learn, and run them thru it again again until each fight is drilled into their heads hard enough you can start to clear it flawlessly. You must be patient. You must be courteous. You must extend your arm and offer knowledge and support.

Judging from this post's existence, you are none of these things. Perhaps you, too, have a lot to learn.