It seems the main point of grievance, and the primary point of desire is the acquisition of equipment. The OP seemed to be primarily (solely?) concerned about equipment, and none of the other aspects of this world.

I'm not entirely convinced that acquiring equipment was meant to be the primary goal here.

Given that, perhaps look at the game as it was meant to be viewed, and then decide if that is the game you want to play. If the purpose of this game is to 'explore', 'adventure', 'meet people', 'try out a variety of jobs/crafts' then perhaps look at it from that perspective.

If that is not what you wish from a game (which is perfectly acceptable) than you may not be getting what you want here (also acceptable!) Not every game is designed to attract everyone in the world ^.^