This is my first playthrough, I am nearly 50 now but I have yet to be invited to any FC's.
I haven't even seen any recruiting in shout either.
In fact, no one talks to me in game, at all.
Yet all around I see people, it's very unnerving.

Well actually I do know one guy but he seems to be busy doing his own thing and talks to me maybe once a week.

I'll probably end up going back to my old mmo at this rate, just because I have people there to talk to and do stuff with.