ummm. cybering isnt bad in any way. While i don't do it, i also don't see why 2 people -looking- to cyber should be judged or looked down upon for doing it. And asking someone to cyber isnt sexual harassment or a bad thing. It's asking a question, which that person can then say NO to.

Also it's not just males that partake in the activity. Many females seek out partners online to explore their sexuality. Its much safer than going to a bar and picking up a random stranger.