I agree.....yet disagree......

the core game elements need to be first priority.

Cute/sexy/reveling/pretty clothing? sure, but as long as it stays within the game world and does not cross boarders.... (like Lalafell getting a bear suit or something)

Marriage? yeah sure it was in FFXI and it will be in FFXIV at some point.

your points 2 and 4.... no -.- just.... no