Last night I found a group to try Titan HM with. I kept pulling hate off the tank. I would give the tank time to establish aggro, as well as everyone else, I stopped using regen/medica 2 and only used cure 1. I was still drawing hate so I started healing sparingly. The other healer was seriously undergeared and could not keep up the tank's health spamming cure 2. When he got low I cast benediction which put me in yellow so I stopped healing at all and just focused on dodging. After several rounds of casting nothing I suddenly had full hate.

All the dps had full DL. A couple had their relics. The BLM had a full Vanya/i70 jewelry set decked out with level IV materia. The tank was also well geared with full DL and his ifrit weapon. I'm baffled why I was pulling so much hate. I talked to another friend who said he has a lot of trouble holding hate against a geared WHM. So what else can I do to reduce enmity for this fight?