Just because you have the choice to do things by yourself in the game does not mean it is not an MMO. You also have the choice to do things with other people so that completly counters your argument. You can run solo or with friends. The fact that it is not forced upon you is great. FFXI you had to party to level and spend hours doing it. FFXIV you can do it by yourself (which means no more spending hours in town with your flag up) or you can do it with friends. Choice is a wonderful thing. Sounds like you need to make some friends. You CAN'T play with friends in a single player game.