Kind of a neutral outside view here being that i've tried to "over level", anyway before my dungeons. So, i'm glad to read these warnining posts about the issue "the good-the pushy-and the offended",I've cleared every FF title since (1).
In this MMO I have done the same thing and now I see it has spared me insults and what not in dungeons,(I havent played 11 though), so this is my first MMO anyway.
So my message to who's being called "elitist" would be to not be rude, you cant assume the character there thats not really ready actually did that on purpose-and realize that some peoples "MO" is trying to pull a fast one on the games content by doing what they say cant be done,
how many people do you know like that?,if you tell them its impossible to do something-they'le try harder.