As a casual player, I realize I dread every dungeon in the story...

[Conkers]

I don't even understand why you would bother playing an MMO when you have less than an hour a day to play. That is your real problem not the dungeon mechanics.

No his problem is he wants to play the game, unfortunately for him the PvE MMO playerbase is at an all-time-low in terms of quality and has far too many lobotomised morons in it who play for "rewards" and the thinly disguised Skinner Box PvE is in most games, rather than things like challenge, gameplay, etc which are usually a very distant second.

To the point where people read the answers as it were before they go into a dungeon, rather than actually play the game and solve the mechanics themselves, I swear there are mice in laboratories that exhibit higher level behaviour than many MMO players.