Quote Originally Posted by Nailkita View Post
Whether its the group makeup, or someone being a tool, I always offer to leave first, I'm in no rush, to be honest I do my HM ifrits before bed or work, so it's kinda a last minute thing of "oh well, I'll leave so you guys don't have to wait on queue, good luck" from that I actually see a few genuine thank yous so hey if it calms people down even better
I'm with you. If I've gotten into a group that absolutely fails the instance the last thing I want to do is reque and potentially bang my head against the wall for another 20 mins so I'm fine leaving first. I'll spend some time crafting or fategrinding other classes or trolling shouts offering to sell Titan HM for 1k gil cheaper than the last shout. All of those things are more interesting than standing around doing nothing hoping someone leaves instance first.