Quote Originally Posted by Ardeth View Post
I'd kill for friends like you in 14. Seriously everyone I've met lately has been out for themselves first. Which is why this has been such hell for me to do it. I've been entirely solo. Even in a group nobody wants to chit chat they don't know you so it's just been rough. And like you, if I were done and you needed one I'd help you and I think FATEs are the worst piece of content in this game and I'd still help a friend get their last one or last 5. I wouldn't care. It's just been so anti-social on my social front if you follow me. This is making this grind torture.

I know your pain. Is there no FC you can try to ask for help in/join and meet new friends? I've also opened FATE farming PFs outside of OC and had people help me speed up the farm that way (when I was farming gemstones/ranks, but if your quest is active you can also get the forbidden OC candy)


Staying polite and positive can be so hard when you're used to people giving you the cold shoulder, but you must present the best version of yourself (not only for others, but for yourself too!). You never know where you'll meet your future best friend, so don't be afraid to strike up conversations! If no one answers that's just their loss :P we try again in the next duty!