Looking for people to hang out with

Hey I'm just starting up the game again and looking for some people to hang out on discord and chat and maybe smoke some weed :p, do roulettes with, maybe glam hunt, whatever, I highly encourage any queers playing to message me :o!!! And don't message me if your anti-lgbtq! Because I am very gay and probably not your cup of tea!!:rolleyes:
So come vibe with me!! Maybe I'll even make a sever

are here for politics? or really trying to make friend? most people doesn't care about what you are in the slightest just be chill

OP, most of the people here are trolls or they're literally just here to defend the multi billion yen company. You'd unironically be better off asking on the xiv subreddit or on the existing XIV discord or something imo.

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Originally Posted by Nero-Voidstails

are here for politics? or really trying to make friend? most people doesn't care about what you are in the slightest just be chill

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To be fair, a lot of people online make it their whole personality to be blatantly homophobic/racist/etc., like new-age twitter is basically a safehouse for that type of person/bot nowadays. So op is probably just weeding anyone like that out so he doesn't have to deal with their annoying "rightwing politics is my whole personality" archetype.

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Originally Posted by Avoidy

OP, most of the people here are trolls or they're literally just here to defend the multi billion yen company. You'd unironically be better off asking on the xiv subreddit or on the existing XIV discord or something imo.



To be fair, a lot of people online make it their whole personality to be blatantly homophobic/racist/etc., like new-age twitter is basically a safehouse for that type of person/bot nowadays. So op is probably just weeding anyone like that out so he doesn't have to deal with their annoying "rightwing politics is my whole personality" archetype.

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oh no that I get trust me I know I am part of the LGBT and that's the LGBT community that pushed me to hatred. I got call racist just because I am white and transphobic because I refuse to believe in the pronouns thing. does that sound logic to you?

I don't like to make assumptions, so one anti woke closer posted I'm not going to assume most of the people here are trolls lol but me being me I have a much larger target on my back so I'm used it, doesn't phase me, they probably have a lonely life or something. I hope they find piece 🤣

Everyone in this game is fine with LGBTA. Every single random party I've ever joined for raids over the last 10 years has had LGBTQ players in. If they don't regard themselves as that, they are usually still clearly different in some way. Every static too. And every chat in the game.

The point I am making is, if someone was anti-LGBTA, they would struggle to play this game. It would be genuinely impossible to play it actually. Because you join any PF or chat in the game and people are always discussing their LGBTA stuff openly and making jokes about it. Even dungeon runs, when people chat, LGBTA subjects are often what come up to make jokes about the bosses.

It sounds like you're looking for an FC so you could check https://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodes...Coeurl&type=fc

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I don't like to make assumptions, so one anti woke closer posted I'm not going to assume most of the people here are trolls lol but me being me I have a much larger target on my back so I'm used it, doesn't phase me, they probably have a lonely life or something. I hope they find piece ������

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There's a sub-population here determined to bring the culture wars to a game, despite the fact many of us play the game precisely to get away from such battles.

Agree with Avoidy that r/ffxiv is likely more fertile ground.

Enjoy the journey.

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Everyone in this game is fine with LGBTA. Every single random party I've ever joined for raids over the last 10 years has had LGBTQ players in. If they don't regard themselves as that, they are usually still clearly different in some way. Every static too. And every chat in the game.

The point I am making is, if someone was anti-LGBTA, they would struggle to play this game. It would be genuinely impossible to play it actually. Because you join any PF or chat in the game and people are always discussing LGBTA stuff openly and making jokes relating to it. Even dungeon runs, when people chat, LGBTA subjects are often what come up to make jokes about the bosses.

It sounds like you're looking for an FC so you could check https://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodes...Coeurl&type=fc

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Jeeqbit, you may well know more about this game than anyone on these boards, but when you start channeling Dr. Pangloss I reach for my water pistol.

I've played for years I didn't see this stuff brought up anywhere. Maybe depends on the server you play on because anti woke ppl could happily play the game on the ones I've played on and it'd be about the game not who you were okay with sleeping with or not irl etc.

Oh yeah it's one of the reasons I came back to the game! I once got into a random group with 4 other femboy styled characters with weed name (including me) it was totally random Q and we ended up talking for like 30 minutes while we smoked and joked about stuff. Good times.

I mean for example though, every party I've had in discord voice over 10 years has had voices that are LGBTA. Every FC I've ever been in over 10 years has had openly LGBTA players. Nobody even worries about it because it's part of the game. I know many other games aren't like that, but this one is.

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I mean for example though, every party I've had in discord voice over 10 years has had voices that are LGBTA. Every FC I've ever been in over 10 years has had openly LGBTA players. Nobody even worries about it because it's part of the game. I know many other games aren't like that, but this one is.

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Probably it depends, like for me, I'm always thinking the community is diverse, progressive, and accepting, but then we get folks posting like that on 1st page out of the blue on forums too.

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And don't message me if your anti-lgbtq! Because I am very gay and probably not your cup of tea!!:rolleyes:

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These things are not related. You can be gay and be anti-lgbtq at same time, or just don't care about lgbtq.

Plus most people usually don't care who u are. For example, I hate MSQ in this game, but it does not mean that I should avoid anyone, who likes it, I just dont care, and they too.

*insert mandatory 2025 virtue signaling comment*

but for real OP, I bet nobody cares because people in this game don't interact anyway.

Choosing a japanese game vs a western one is also somewhat of an odd choice because that island hasn't the best track record in political correctness.