Cross-world Wedding?

Considering our community has grown so much, I think it would make sense if you can have an Eternal Bonding ceremony with someone who lives on another world. We can travel to other data centers and with that comes new friendships and new smaller communities are being built all across the world. If we could at least expand Eternal Bonding ceremonies to the worlds within the same data center I think it would go a long way.

If not at least let wanderers and travelers attend EB ceremonies.

If neither cares enough to move to the others server they’re probably not marriage material. Plus SE gets to make money twice, by buying the transfer and the ceremony.

So you’re asking them to spend their money on making less money than before. Hmmm. I think we’ve gotten to the bottom of this mystery.

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Originally Posted by Ath192

If neither cares enough to move to the others server they’re probably not marriage material..

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this is literally not true and a very selfish thought.

fun fact, if you marry and transfer servers you are still married. you can use the rings when you're both on the same server so this request isnt very far fetched.

"If you don't spend IRL money on something stupid - AKA server transfers when we can do 90% of the things while cross-world, you are NOT worthy in my eyes!"

I too, need a random Internet forum poster telling me what's marriage material and what isn't!

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Originally Posted by Ath192

If neither cares enough to move to the others server they’re probably not marriage material.

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I'm gonna munch on some popcorn while I watch you about to get eaten alive for this one.

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Originally Posted by LittleChickenNugget

I'm gonna munch on some popcorn while I watch you about to get eaten alive for this one.

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If people want to eat me alive for thinking marriage should have some level of commitment and sacrifice/compromise so be it lol. It’s a pretty nice gesture when two people like each other so much they pack up and move in together. Doesn’t matter if both move or one moves to the other.

But let’s face it, the real reason SE won’t do this is the financial side of things described previously. Make sure to put butter on that popcorn.

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Originally Posted by Ath192

If people want to eat me alive for thinking marriage should have some level of commitment and sacrifice/compromise so be it lol. It’s a pretty nice gesture when two people like each other so much they pack up and move in together. Doesn’t matter if both move or one moves to the other.

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You're talking about marriage in a game though. Not everyone who marries in-game is in an actual relationship. People who are in actual relationships irl don't always want to spend the money to transfer servers to do it in-game especially if they're already on the same DC(and if you're seriously telling me that being cheap about something you don't need as a couple invalidates your entire relationship, then I really, really fear for your relationships).

You're just defending SE's greed at this point.

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Originally Posted by NekoMataMata

You're talking about marriage in a game though. Not everyone who marries in-game is in an actual relationship. People who are in actual relationships irl don't always want to spend the money to transfer servers to do it in-game especially if they're already on the same DC(and if you're seriously telling me that being cheap about something you don't need as a couple invalidates your entire relationship, then I really, really fear for your relationships).

You're just defending SE's greed at this point.

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Don't think so. I'm explaining that SE is greedy, and then giving you my personal thoughts on server transfers for marriage. Whether you want to accuse me of wrong think or not is irrelevant because last I checked people still had free will. From my part regarding your thoughts, it is okay for you to want convenience and easy marriages.

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Originally Posted by LittleChickenNugget

I'm gonna munch on some popcorn while I watch you about to get eaten alive for this one.

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Idk i kinda agree.
if you aren't willing to make the sacrifice to move to the same server, are you really ready to marry somebody?

Attending is a different story, 100% you should be able to attend from any world.

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Originally Posted by DixieBellOCE

Idk i kinda agree.
if you aren't willing to make the sacrifice to move to the same server, are you really ready to marry somebody?

Attending is a different story, 100% you should be able to attend from any world.

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ummm just gonna say this do you have any idea how hard it is to get a house and such? and you want them to loose that forever in some servers it is quite def impossible to get a house hahahaa.

My dudes, it's a fake marriage in a game for a mount that people literally pay others to get and subsequently divorce afterwards lol. I get it if you wanna marry your partner and make it a cute thing but it's not that deep enough to bring up "marriage material". This isn't real life lmfao.

The best thing about a marriage (besides the ritual) is the Ring imho. If you marry somebody, who is playing as much as you do, you can use it all the time. Grabbing a treasuremap real quick? Instaport. Going to a Eorzea Icognita place - warp. "Hey, I wanna show you this!" - bling. New quest? Wait a sec, teleporting to you.

Marriage should be aviable through more worlds (as visitor and participant).