Originally Posted by
Vidu
There is a second limitation: the person cant be /busy, since that blocks out all tells aswell. As I mentioned: We already have a way for people to prevent getting tells if they dont want to - but I dont think its so unreasonable to assume that people might be okay with getting tells from friends, but not random strangers - at least at times. Having the option to type /busy-unless-you-are-my-friend and having it work just like the current /busy (aka: not having it on by default but rather having to type it each time you want to) would certainly be welcome - and would do more good than harm.
I'll repeat myself, but if someone makes use of this status (or even something similar - even something we already have ingame like /busy), it means that they're not intrested in chatting with a stranger, in answering your question or in hearing that you like their glamour - and thats okay, thats their good right. I dont understand why people seem to believe that their ability to sent possibly unwanted /tells is more important than someones ability to block those out... and why they'd even want to engage with someone who'd rather not engage with them.
Using /say to circumvent that is a terrible suggestion aswell - seriously, if someone doesnt want to recive /tells, let them be.
And I assume that you know that and are just tryint to justify sending /tells to people who might not want them, but: if you see someone wearing a glamour and you'd like to know what it is, just open their character screen and hover over the items. It will tell you whats been glamoured onto those (if a glamour was applied). Works even on the lodestone. No need to follow anyone around.