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03-25-2019, 06:55 AM
MorbolvampireQueen6

im sorry..

since i heard no healer ive been taking out my emotions on players and for that im sorry every1. mainic depression when set off .. it just hurts you know no new healer or healer love rlly does give me heartace
03-25-2019, 06:59 AM
DatPotato

You know you did wrong and you're apologizing for it. do you remember the players you directly lashed out on ?
Would be better to apologize to them personally, (if you can ofc)
03-25-2019, 07:00 AM
Ruru_Nayu

Could have asked the ranged physical dps or tanks the same question if they would have decided to release a healer insted of x or y. Not everyone is going to be happy with their choices.
Just look forward to the new content they are releasing except diadem 3.0 :V
03-25-2019, 07:16 AM
Valdima

I don't really know why you'd apologize though. all it does is remind people.
03-25-2019, 07:17 AM
Fredco191

I forgive you.
03-25-2019, 07:26 AM
Jaywalker

Honestly I think everyone's feeling on edge right now and lashing out more than usual (me included tbh, not something I'm proud of) but being aware when it happens, apologizing, and making an effort to not going forward is the right move I think.

Figure it's easy for people to forget everyone makes mistakes and everyone has less flattering moments, but how you handle those matters a lot. Being able to own those is a really respectable, adult way to handle it and hopefully most people here will get that. :)

Hope you feel better, for real. Since there's no new healer, do you think it would be helpful to try coming up with some fun ways to celebrate healers and raise visibility both in forums and in-game for now? Knowing there are a lot of people who love the role you do might be reassuring.
03-25-2019, 07:38 AM
MorbolvampireQueen6

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Originally Posted by Jaywalker

Honestly I think everyone's feeling on edge right now and lashing out more than usual (me included tbh, not something I'm proud of) but being aware when it happens, apologizing, and making an effort to not going forward is the right move I think.

Figure it's easy for people to forget everyone makes mistakes and everyone has less flattering moments, but how you handle those matters a lot. Being able to own those is a really respectable, adult way to handle it and hopefully most people here will get that. :)

Hope you feel better, for real. Since there's no new healer, do you think it would be helpful to try coming up with some fun ways to celebrate healers and raise visibility both in forums and in-game for now? Knowing there are a lot of people who love the role you do might be reassuring.

yes i would i just feel we get a lack of love in general so anything would help honestly in my opinion
03-25-2019, 07:41 AM
Jkap_Goat

Same, I've been very upset and salty that where is no new healer but I should be looking at the positive sides, we finally got dancer and even though I wished it was a healer, at least it's implement in the game in some way than none at all. So I apologise also being salty
03-25-2019, 07:46 AM
Jaywalker

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Originally Posted by MorbolvampireQueen6

yes i would i just feel we get a lack of love in general so anything would help honestly in my opinion

Alright, I'll try and brainstorm and post threads as stuff hits. Can't guarantee other people will jump in but I'll do my best based on what I've seen people get excited about before.

Have one idea off the bat, going to set that up for now.
03-25-2019, 08:06 AM
hasana

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Originally Posted by Jkap_Goat

Same, I've been very upset and salty that where is no new healer but I should be looking at the positive sides, we finally got dancer and even though I wished it was a healer, at least it's implement in the game in some way than none at all. So I apologise also being salty

Well it's fine you had the right to be upset we all know the feeling of getting our hopes up only to be disappointed and worse you had to wait until the very last Fanfest so it doesn't help. While some of the healers are annoying most of you have our sympathy and we really wish you (the nice healers) to get one and hopefully a real job not a blue mage like job.
03-25-2019, 08:15 AM
MorbolvampireQueen6

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Originally Posted by Jaywalker

Alright, I'll try and brainstorm and post threads as stuff hits. Can't guarantee other people will jump in but I'll do my best based on what I've seen people get excited about before.

Have one idea off the bat, going to set that up for now.

personally i would even take a small thing like a minion for qing for so many hard things archivement or even a house item. i just don't want healers to be put in a you don't matter box and everything comes before you all the time.
03-25-2019, 08:32 AM
Schan

Morbol, you're getting my hopes up. That's a bad thing.

Could it be that we are one step closer to stop with the lashing out and actually "sit down" and discuss things in a civil manner?

This is very brave of you my dear and in the proccess you might be helping others too.

Thank you.
03-25-2019, 08:33 AM
Jaywalker

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Originally Posted by MorbolvampireQueen6

personally i would even take a small thing like a minion for qing for so many hard things archivement or even a house item. i just don't want healers to be put in a you don't matter box and everything comes before you all the time.

I get you! Also set up a thread, if there's anything you'd like to see or ideas you have feel free to swing by. :) Will think about more possible activities and all too.