I feel like a loner

I doubt it's just me, but I haven't really had a chance to play since launch and now that I'm finally getting back into the game, and almost all my friends have left. I've tried making new ones but everyone just seems to be an elitist and isn't very welcoming. I finally got a chance to do some end game content and everyone seems so rushed. I get kicked out of parties, and harrassed because my gear isn't ilvl90+ and it makes me feel like I shouldn't even be playing. How am I suppose to get decent gear if I'm constantly kicked out, or "the blame" for things not working out? For the most part the dungeons aren't even that difficult, and the hard mode primals are easy enough for me but it seems like no ones welcome in anything unless they have ilvl90+ gear.

I'm probably just ranting.

I have a solution for you, though it will cost you.

Transfer over to Balmung and join the FC I'm in! We constantly run old content to gear up our members new to endgame. No one is rushed, and no is kicked.

If that's not for you, it's just a matter of finding an FC that's the right fit for you, on Coeurl.

Hey Aeir
I'm on Coeurl too! I'll send you a tell once I log on later to see if I can try to help you out

Hey Aeir Talies, i'd love to be your friend. I hope Vapas was able to get a hold of you. In any case, I hope you don't leave the server. I am willing to help you and give you tips and what now whenever I can. Send me a mail in game if interested. Or if im online give me a /tell or friend request. You dont have to join my FC or anything. :P well I hope things work out so you stay on Coeurl and get to love the game :)

Some people will have patience others are just looking for the farm. If you are straight up about where you are in terms of progression and they take you and still get angry at you/kick you because you didn't know something then the issue is on them - not you.

Unfortunately, any server you go to will have the elitist type but not all of us are cut by the same thread. There are tons of us out there that enjoy helping out.

Even though I seems 90% of the time Vapas messages me I am afk =x

same either switch over to a different server and join a much nicer FC or try to get some friends on with can make all the difference man.

If you do switch over to Diabolos thats were its at man!;)

i know the feeling i switch servers hour ago and feel lonely with no friends atm but hoping soon it will change. ill be your friend and help you out Aeir. im in search for linkshell to join up do fun activities with raid etc

in game name Ragnar Dragonborn

I'm newer as well, this is my first RPG and I've been kicked a few times. I didn't know why and I still don't, oh well.

Don't transfer to Balmung. ;). Transfer to faerie!

Definitely find a casual, "play at your own pace" FC. There are many out there and they are growing in number. You are not alone.

I feel the same wow, I thought it was bad in Warcraaft, but when its you still gearing up and getting ready suddenly no one has time for you or the "Group" is full / we dont need your XXX.

You can hang with us any time.
We're on Coeurl, FC is LE Resistance.

I have not experienced what you are talking about much, but I am newly minted 50 only doing WP and AK.

I am just using my job gear too, but no one has complained. I'll run anything with you that I can, and my FC just does it for fun. I wish you the best.

There are lots of really lovely people on this server! PM me in-game if you're feeling bored and want to run stuff. :3

You can check is out, we've go people on most of the time, pretty fun stuff too.
We are moving forward, but casual I guess.

We're all very helpful if there is anything you need, Np.

You can switch servers but just join a good FC. Check us out in DYNA. But so you know all NA servers are linked together in the aether group for df. So server for that is Irrelevent honestly

Yea I feel your pain, just came back after a long hiatus and I am having troubles finding anyone to play the game with, I have a wht mage with some il 90 gear nothing spectacular, and my weapon cant remember the name, but it was the first op weapon you got a few months back. Maybe we can meet up in game