Cant seem to do anything in game then Error 9000/3102/and more

When I am logged in, I either can or can't get on a Chocobo. If I do get on one, I can't get off it. I also cannot talk to NPC's, it also says my friend list is empty and my FC is gone. After that I get an error 9000 in 5 to 10 minutes. Then 3102. Guys, I've patiently waited through the great "Error 1017". The game was perfectly fine last night for the few hours I've got to play. Now that I'm home and have some time to play again, I can't! I'm going to assuming that this is happening after todays patch, I could be wrong but the coincidence is extremely high. I'd like to know what can or is being done to fix this or if there is any help I can be getting?

I'm going to post the same thing in every thread I see pop up regarding the lag.
Getting r0 every 5-10 seconds EVERYWHERE I go in game. Has been happening since the update/maintenance on Sept 4th when the brought out the 1000MB patch file. Nothing I have tried fixes it. Already spoke to my ISP who assures me they are not blocking or throttling me in any way. We have a 30Mbps download speed connection, with 3-5Mbps Upload speed. Speedtests to multiple different servers around the world have come back normal, and all other games/mmo's connect and function as they should. Only FFXIV seems to be having this receive rate 0 lag issue.
I have tried other servers such as Sargatanas and Tonberry and I still get the same lag. The lag does not improve even if I am in non-traffic areas such as my inn room. I still get the lag.
15-20mins after logging in I often get error 90k.

exact same situation here,... there are a few threads going around about this,..i tried everything i could think of, last resort, i climbed a tree and cut branches i thought may hit or tug on my cable line with the right strong breeze... lol....cant wait to hear something regarding this issue.