Got Disconnected, Can't Get Back In

This is, hands down, the worst treatment I have ever gotten from a game company. Forget the shady practices of EA or Bioware or even Capcom. This takes the cake, and by a significant margin.

The server limits are ridiculous, and the update to the hardware is nowhere in sight. For most people this will be a completely wasted weekend.

No idlekick, no way to get back in if you get disconnected to keep your slot.

Several hours of wait just to hope to get into a queue.

We paid for this, really?

Yep you didn't really pay for anything yet as Early Access just ended today and is now beginning with the free 30 days that comes with any new account. As promised by the game producer, per the link I will provide, the days of lost access will be compensated as the server fixes are going in.
Read this for more details, released directly from the producer and director for FFXIV ARR: http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/threads/73680