Upsettingly long Duty lagg Cross Server Play

I am seeing a absurd amount of lagg time from the Monsters and the actions of myself taking in effect and the actions in others in when using playing with people from other severs.


I don't really claim to know anything about how the sever system operates. But when I play for instance, with the people in my Free Company or others from my sever in a dungeon I don't see the same at minimum full second to full 2 second delay in actions. I am talking about (for myself) a AoE going off 2 seconds after I have left its impact and hitting me or watching a player get hit then fall from inside the AoE as their body moves across the screen to far outside the AoEs impact/ just watching another player get hit and die when they were no where near the impact.

This goes for my heals and other actions as well, I'll have cast a cure and then 2 seconds later that heal pops back to me not even a fraction of a second after someone has died. Again, I don't see this when playing with a "Light Party" form my sever.

Now again, I don't know how it all works on the technical side of things with the communication between severs but there is definitely something wrong here.

I should clarify, when I say lagg I mean as to see everything in the past tense. I don't get chop.