Unable to Load servers, still logged in[ 90000, 10102 ]

around 3 pm east, I was queing up duty finder, it found a group for ifrit instance. However, upon enterting the fight, I was alone, Ifrit killed me, but instead of homepointing it just reloaded the fight, several times, I finally left and abandoned the duty finder, upon so, I got 90000, then 10102. 3 hours later, all my friend sonline say I am still logged in the game. When I restart client and everything, the server list for NA/EU will not load for me. I know problems have been coming all day and such, but until now I have had no problem logging on and such. Now I am stuck, disconnect me or something plz, maybe?