Need some help choosing a server

Hi,

Currently i'm on Balmung but i dont know if its the right choice for me
What i would like from a server is this:

Lots of people to play with,
I'm from EU so my timezone is GMT+1
LGBT Community would be fun

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I know Ragnarok is the EU server but when i logged on and went to talk to some people they said that Balmung would be a better choice since i'm playing alone and the server (Ragnarok) is kind of a ghost.
But my concern is, wouldnt the other servers also be a ghost? since im on the GMT+1 timezone. (they where from the US)
I just want to play with allot of nice English speaking members

Thank you for taking the time to read this