Raiding pet peeves

let's keep it light hearted and funny. Some trauma dumping is ok, but let's see what we can come up with. Stories are ok, too.

Maybe if I were to make a hypothetical group, and I could get away with making any rules I wanted to (assuming people would agree to them) what would they be?

1.) No couples, bffs, ride-or-dies, duos, etc.
I dont want to hear flirting during raid. I dont want a duo coming in to help someone not take accountability for their gameplay or lack thereof.

2.) No irrelevant asking of "what happened" if it's abundantly obvious what happened, such as when sugar riot casts the last tankbuster and nothing else is happening and one or both tanks mess up, killing a lot of people, having someone ask "what happened" makes me question the person.

3.) No irrelevant, constant shouting of "MY CONTROLLER!" "oh i pressed the wrong button" "i messed up yall and heres what happened." If it gives no benefit to anybody currently listening and helps them stay focused on clearing or progging, the needless shouting and explaining takes up voice comms and can be distracting.

4.) No talking if talking is going to cause you to mess up or if you cant discern when the right time to talk is. Some people need callouts, and they need to be able to hear them, and you need to be able to know when this is. Maybe finding a better time besides raid (when many or all people are in voice by choice or compulsion) is a better time to get the ears of everyone around you lol.

5.) We arent walking in with the mindset of "oh boy, not this again," "can we save lb3 for rezzes if we need it," "what if," and any kind of mindset that says you have already written off the fight. It's a fight. Realize what it is and what the group is committing to do, and contribute, or else vocalize what you are feeling or thinking, but we aren't walking in with a mindset of "if we wipe". "Next pull" isnt happening on a reclear. Every pull is a clear. Snap out of it. Lol

6.) Dont disguise your question of "is anyone else experiencing lag" as a way of finding someone to confide your copout in. Legitimate questions only. (This one is harsh but not so serious lol)

7.) A random number of readychecks will be presented, because there isnt a capcha system in place to make people use their brain to decide if they're truly ready or not. If you hit ready, we are assuming you have food, potions, gear that is in no need of repair, and no sudden need for extra time.

8.) No repeating what someone else already said. No good reason for this one. I just dont like it. Lol

What can you all come up with or share?

let's have fun and die all as one!!! we are now united in being crap and laughing xx) honestly I am old and don't find the reward really good at this point so let's just have fun and crack joke xx)

Lag is usually legitimate, in my experience (often followed up by a disconnect, red icon, rubberband, or a DDoS that the rest of us experience). There are cases where a person doesn't understand what snapshots are. But if they have done a certain amount of raiding, at a certain point they have figured out it's not lag, but just how the game works.