Eternal Bonding question [please help]

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Hi all, firstly I wish you all are having a wonderful day.

So me my friend are planning our ceremony and we have completed all the steps up to the point where we speak to Etoinelle - both of us were in a party - both had our wristlets equipped - she was able to book a reservation - but then I was not able to select the same time slot as her - this kinda defeats the objective lol.

So how do we both select the same time as a couple - when in a party - or do we both select different times? Because only she has invitation cards .

When I try to select the time she reserved it just says "this time slot is already reserved". Also if I may, can we invite friends from different home worlds or data centers or are invitations restricted to friends on our own home world only

I hope someone can help, this is so confusing. :(

its been awhile since i've done the wedding but if i remember correctly only one of you needs to reserve a spot not both

To answer your questions
Only one of you needs to reserve the time for the wedding to be booked. It will tell you the time in your time zone by looking at the wedding application from your inventory.
Also you can only invite people on the same server. People from different servers will need to make an alt to attend the wedding.