Originally Posted by
Sol_Aureus
See this is the problem I have with WHMs who focus on damage too much. While most of your sentiment is true, your last line "pick up damage because your pick up group members can't stay alive" is the problem. If your party members die, you failed your role. They're your responsibility as long as they're not getting one shot (and I mean one shot, if they have ANY HP after getting hit they're still your responsibility). While you can nuke, never forget that you're a healer first and foremost.