Endless queues and now i get error 2002 constantly so i cant even wait to play

I have been playing sine launch which i have to say is pretty bad u have to wait hours to play and have gotten Dced from yur servers so i have to wait again but today 04/12/21 i cant even wait in line cause im at place 6000 what ever and after 10 20 mins i get error 2002 that says Lobby connection probes its not my internet connection since i dont have that issue with any other game and since i gotten to 84 on my BML i can prove i have a stable connection so how can things just get worst i want a refund i have to say this is my worst experience on a expansion launch i had to endure Rabaun Ex on storm blood

Not sure if it would be the same thing for you but after the upgrade I was getting error 2002 on login constantly as the upgrade changed the ffxiv.exe, so I had to add it to my firewall whitelist again