I suppose this would go here.

As I am asking for items. I need three things, possably four. It is for rp events. I need a long skirted gown that can have the main body dyed. I want to turn it a darker blue, I may turn it yellow, have not decided. It can have the leg slit or not, I do not care. I would like some elbow length white gloves, and some low heels, pretty much party gear. fourth thing would be a flower I can wear in her hair, this is only a far down the line priority. Need the other three first.

I looked on the market board and there are more things then I know the numbers of and I am sure there are some glamour experts who can tell me what I need with there vast knowledge of the fashionable items in game, you know, the people who win Roses contest every week.

The two dyeable wedding dresses available as part of the paid Ceremony of Eternal Bonding are exactly what you're after. But you need to have your character marry another player's (and to pay for the premium gold or platinum plans) in order to gain those, as the default free wedding dress is undeyable.

Also there is the Fairy Tale Princess Dress, and the Majestic Dress on the Mogstation too but again they are not free (and only the Fairy Tale Princess Dress is dyeable).

Failing that, there are a couple of gowns you can use that are dyeable to an extent - the Spring Dress and Spring Skirt are dyeable and are crafted, but dyeing the bodice only changes the colour of the neckline and hem with the rest remaining white, although the skirt is fully dyeable. The shoes that go with this dress are flats too (I use both parts for different glamours - the skirt is part of my PLD glamour and the body my GNB glam).

There's also the High Houses' Bustle dress, although a significant portion of that remains black, and the Ishgardian Gown, which alas also has significant portions that remain a default colour (namely the burgundy neckline and underskirt).

Two other dresses that have large ball-style skirts but are more 'common' in appearence (as in, old fashioned day wear) but might still work are the Riveria Dress and the Thavnarian Wool Autumn Dress, and yes, both are dyeable (the former though only the skirt changes colour and not the bodice).

For shoes the Bridesmaid's Sandals are pretty much exactly what you're after.

Hopefully this helps you look your best at your next RP party! :D

Looking beyond level 1 glamour items, the thing that might really be what you're after is the Type-51 Robe of Casting from the Copied Factory.

Possibly pair with the Faerietale Princess gloves and heels as linked above, but also look at the Hailstorm Gloves purchased in Idyllshire. (At the time I am linking this, one of the first results is wearing both the gloves and the dress I recommended above.)

There is a large selection of level 1 flower hairpins on the marketboard, but you can also get the Obsolete Android's flower hairpin from Paradigm's Breach.

Maybe go to the website Eorzea Collection. Tons of ideas and you can click on the piece of gear to see where it comes from.

I have mostly avoided people except for required stuff. Just got into the rp stuff on here though I did do it for years on wow. Thank you for the suggestions.