Friend List quality of life change Suggestion. / (Bug?)

This has been a problem that has been a thing since 2.0 release. I am not sure if this is something the Developer is aware of or not. However, I would like to see this potentially look into or change. I will give an example of what currently happens with the friend list system.

Example:
If person A sends a friend request to person B.
Person B Accepts friend request from person A.
Person B decided to remove Person A as a friend from their friend list.
Despite being removed on person B’s friend list Person B remains on Person’s A Friend list as “Friend”.
Additionally, if Person B resends the friend request to Person A they are automatically added back to the friend list without a prompt showing up for Person A.

I've tested this with a few friends of mine on alternative characters. This seems like a major oversight and causes problems for people who try to get away from former friends that go down the route stalker-like behavior.
Is it possible Square Enix can do some sort of change for this or explain why the friend list system is built like this is?


Furthermore,
Allow players to show their current status on the friend list menu. Sometimes I don’t want to be bothered or stalk by players. Allow players to appear offline on other's friend list. These are changes I kind of expected to be implemented since 2.0 but no one has brought it up or any past patches indicate any sort of change as described above. Any response or Implementation of such a suggestion would be greatly appreciated for not only myself but for many players who play in this large online gaming community.