Returning EU player looking for a Free Company and chatty Linkshells

Balmung was my home world for a while when my old FFXI group decided to go there. Now I've returned after a 4 year hiatus and pretty much everyone has quit or transferred.
So I'm looking for a super chatty, active and mature community.
I'm a 40 year old gamer with an active work life and who likes to relax in the lovely world of Final Fantasy.

Who has a free spot and is willing to take in a returning player? Free Company and Linkshells alike =]