Originally Posted by
Kitfox
Pretty sure it works when you cycle targets with Tab, you should stay engaged. Not entirely sure as I'm so accustomed to the UI that I don't really think about it.
Only have to do it when approaching a new bunch of mobs, which means not all the time. Takes half a second to do and I do it instinctively. It just comes naturally after a while so can't say it bothers me.
There are some instances when it's useful to select target, without being engaged so that you don't auto-attack. For example, running to combo position of a (new) mob without turning it to you before combo, or attacking a slept mob from good position.
I play with keyboard-only, if that makes any difference.
Sorry that I can't help with macros. I don't use any myself. There is, however, quite an extensive list of text commands on the lodestone main page category for it.