Finally got my golden hammer today- the re-grind was long but I pre-vailed! (Not so much my wallet though, and I'm not sure about my sanity.)
Pic in my blog entry: http://lodestone.finalfantasyxiv.com/rc/diary/top?cicuid=9698008
I was taught again how quickly shard cost adds up- especially for BSM.
It shrinks when you take it out to use it. Damn. щ(ﾟДﾟщ)