I'm curious how people are dealing with the tanks that want to pull everything before a boss. As a i314 WHM, I still have to burn most or all of my cooldowns and forego all dps to keep the tank alive, even when they're well geared. Frequently I go into the next huge pull with limited options, and sometimes can barely make it through. A bad series of crits or positioning, and the aggressive pull makes the run take significantly longer than it would have otherwise.
I guess this is normal for X.0 content? Asking the tank to slow down gets ignored, yelled at, or the tank just leaves.
How are other healers handling this? Am I just bad?