My fingers are crying, end my misery....do it SE!
Edit:
To those of you that are in favor of this idea, show that thread some support!
Yep, this would basically have solved everything. I wouldn't mind waiting because at least you'd know you'd get in for sure, and a rough idea of how long it would take.
This would solve so many issues and the game already has similar systems in place.
I already even made a suggestion on this: http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/t...solo-instances